::maiden court appearance::
last tuesday, i had to go to the provincial court for a plea for sentencing hearing. my client had been charged with assaulting his wife under the canadian criminal code. it ended well - or at least we got the verdict that was best under the circumstances. my client obtained a conditional discharge, which means that he's sorta acquitted (w/o a criminal record) but he will be on probation for 2 years.
initially, i had a lot of misgivings about taking on this case because im really against domestic violence, and i didn't really want to represent someone who was guilty of spousal abuse. however, i still went ahead to do it coz i wanted to experience trial work in the vancouver courts, and my client really needed help coz he cldnt speak english and didnt have the financial means to afford legal advice/representation. to make matters worse, it didnt really help that my client lied to me twice (another long story), and it made me quite mad about it actually. how was i gonna do my job if i can't even be sure what he has been telling me, was the truth? but i realized why he did that eventually, and as the case progressed, the whole picture became clearer to me and i saw his side of the story. in fact, i now deeply empathize with him and his predicament. i really learnt a lot from this experience, especially concerning the ethical dilemmas (i shant go into detail. haha) that a lawyer will often find himself/herself facing. i am also ashamed that i held on to my prejudices, when i handled the matter (until the last part). nevertheless, im just glad that i did what i could for him, to the best of my ability and it ended well! being able to contribute my small bit to the realization of compassion in justice has given me a great sense of satisfaction:)
::greek foodfare & potluck at my place::
yayy the feast before us:) really enjoyed the food and company!!
after dinner, we played chinese checkers - over beer, vodka, jelly and cake! it was a close battle between karen and i - but i got 'betrayed' by my dear hiroko!! who would have known?;) haha. karen should have won - but huiping sorta helped me block karen so i finished 1st. thanks babe!haha.
all of us - i love being with this bunch of people (plus the visibly absent dav who went home 1st coz he had to churn out 3 essays by the next day) :) will miss those who will be leaving this dec..
::deb's farewell and xmas trainride::
in cahoots - me, charis and bora at steve's place!
while awaiting deb's arrival- some of us hid along the stairway. steve was supposed to give us the signal before we would jump in on debs to surprise her!
bora and i along the stairway!
debs in a state of shock!! heh.. yayy mission accomplished:) all of us:) we had a dessert potluck! i cooked green bean soup with tangyuan (white sesame and peanut fillings) ! adrian and larissa took care of the main meal - perrogis, lasagne and french loaf with some exotic spinach dressing! yummy:) one thing i realized about ivcf gatherings is that there's always an abundance of good food. heh:)
after the party, we decided to go to stanley park for the xmas train ride! at least part of our fake plan did materialize after all;)
at stanley park - gen, me, matt, debs and claudia! we arrived 1st coz we got a lift from claudia! thanks babe! thk God for the warm car ride coz it was really freezing cold that evening:(
debs and me - with santa! ho ho ho. we will definitely miss u debs! make sure u come back to ubc, once in a while to visit us yeah?:)
haha. i made matt pose as the shorter fireman - even though he's really much bigger than me in real life! this photo-taking apparatus was part of some fund-raising event organized by the vancouver fire department at stanley park!
all of us on the miniature train!! with nice xmas carols playing on the background and the beautiful multi-colored lighting display all around, the spirit of xmas was certainly in the air!! too bad most of the photos i took of the lighting displays didnt turn out well..and these certainly do not do them justice..